Let \( A = \{-2,-1,0,1,2,3,4\} \) and \( R \) be a relation such that
\[
R=\{(x,y): 2x+y \le -2,\ x\in A,\ y\in A\}.
\]
Let
\( l \) = number of elements in \( R \),
\( m \) = minimum number of elements to be added to \( R \) to make it reflexive,
\( n \) = minimum number of elements to be added to \( R \) to make it symmetric.
Then \( (l+m+n) \) is: