The given relation is defined by \( 2x - y \in \{0, 1\} \). By checking all possible pairs, we find the following:
\[
R = \{(0, 0), (-1, -2), (1, 2), (0, -1), (1, 1), (2, 3), (-1, -3)\}
\]
The number of elements in \( R \) is 7. For reflexivity, we need to add the following elements: \( (0, 0), (1, 1), (2, 2), (-1, -1), (-2, -2), (3, 3) \), which means 5 elements need to be added. For symmetry, we need to add the pairs:
\[
(-1, -2), (1, 2), (0, -1), (1, 1), (2, 3), (-1, -3)
\]
Thus, \( l + m + n = 17 \).
Thus, the correct answer is \( 17 \).