We are given that the matrices \( A \) and \( B \) satisfy the condition \( AB = BA \), and we are tasked with finding the matrix \( B \). To solve this, we must analyze the structure of the matrices and use the property of commutative matrices. First, let's test the given options by multiplying \( A \) with each of the possible \( B \) matrices and check if the result satisfies the condition \( AB = BA \).
After testing each option, we find that the matrix \( B \) that satisfies \( AB = BA \) is:
\[ B = \begin{bmatrix} -9 & -3 & 6 \\ -6 & 8 & -4 \\ 12 & -4 & -2 \end{bmatrix} \]
Thus, the correct answer is option (4).