Step 1: Use the formula given.
We are given \( a_{ij} = \frac{1}{3}|i - 5j| \) for \( i, j = 1, 2, 3 \). Compute each element.
\[
\begin{aligned}
a_{11} &= \frac{1}{3}|1 - 5(1)| = \frac{1}{3}|-4| = \frac{4}{3} \\
a_{12} &= \frac{1}{3}|1 - 5(2)| = \frac{1}{3}|-9| = 3 \\
a_{13} &= \frac{1}{3}|1 - 5(3)| = \frac{1}{3}|-14| = \frac{14}{3} \\
\text{(Continue for all entries...) }
\end{aligned}
\]
After full computation, we match with the matrix in option (2).