The ratio of the ages of a husband and his wife when they got married was 6:5. 4 years and 6 years after their marriage they had their 1st and 2nd children. The sum of the present ages of the husband and wife is 6.4 times the sum of the present ages of their children. The average age of the family at present is 18.5 years. Find the ratio of the ages of the husband and wife when their second child was born.