Mutual inductance \( M \) is a measure of the ability of one coil to induce an electromotive force (emf) in another coil due to the change in current in the first coil. The mutual inductance between two coils depends on several factors, including:
Thus, the correct answer is that the mutual inductance depends primarily on:
\[ \boxed{\text{D) The relative position and orientation of A and B}} \]