We are given a relation \( R \) on the set of natural numbers \( \mathbb{N} \) defined by \( aRb \) if and only if \( a + 2b = 11 \). We need to determine the properties of this relation: whether it is reflexive, symmetric, or both.
Step 1: Check if the relation is reflexive.
A relation \( R \) is reflexive if for all \( a \in \mathbb{N} \), we have \( aRa \), i.e., \( a + 2a = 11 \). Simplifying this:
\[
a + 2a = 3a = 11.
\]
This equation does not hold for any natural number \( a \), as \( 3a = 11 \) does not have a solution in \( \mathbb{N} \). Therefore, the relation is not reflexive.
Step 2: Check if the relation is symmetric.
A relation \( R \) is symmetric if for all \( a, b \in \mathbb{N} \), whenever \( aRb \) (i.e., \( a + 2b = 11 \)), we also have \( bRa \) (i.e., \( b + 2a = 11 \)).
Let’s assume \( a + 2b = 11 \). For the relation to be symmetric, we need \( b + 2a = 11 \). However, it is not guaranteed that \( b + 2a = 11 \) for all pairs of \( a \) and \( b \) that satisfy \( a + 2b = 11 \). For example, for \( a = 7 \) and \( b = 2 \), we have:
\[
a + 2b = 7 + 2(2) = 11,
\]
but:
\[
b + 2a = 2 + 2(7) = 16 \neq 11.
\]
Thus, the relation is not symmetric.
Step 3: Conclusion.
Since the relation is neither reflexive nor symmetric, the correct answer is option (D) - neither reflexive nor symmetric.
Thus, the correct answer is option (D).