Step 1: Understanding the relation.
The relation \( R \) is defined as \( xRy \) if and only if \( 4y = 5x - 3 \). For the relation to be symmetric, if \( xRy \) is true, then \( yRx \) must also be true.
Step 2: Finding pairs for symmetry.
For symmetry, we need to ensure that the relation \( 4y = 5x - 3 \) also holds for \( 4x = 5y - 3 \). Solving the system of equations for pairs of \( x \) and \( y \), we find the pairs that violate symmetry.
Step 3: Conclusion.
After analyzing, we find that 2 additional elements need to be added to make the relation symmetric.
Final Answer:
\[
\boxed{2}
\]