For a relation to be reflexive, it must satisfy \( a \, R \, a \), which is not the case here, because \( |a - a| = 0 \), and the condition is \( |a - b|>0 \). For a relation to be symmetric, if \( a \, R \, b \), then \( b \, R \, a \). Since \( |a - b| = |b - a| \), the relation is symmetric.
Thus, the correct answer is (B).