Reflexive:
A relation is reflexive if for every element \( x \in A \), \( (x, x) \in R \).
Since \( |x^2 - x^2| = 0 \), which is less than 8, we conclude that \( (x, x) \in R \) for all \( x \in A \).
Thus, the relation is reflexive.
Symmetric:
A relation is symmetric if for every pair \( (x, y) \in R \), the pair \( (y, x) \) is also in \( R \).
Since \( |x^2 - y^2| <8 \) implies \( |y^2 - x^2| <8 \), the relation is symmetric.
Transitive:
A relation is transitive if whenever \( (x, y) \in R \) and \( (y, z) \in R \), then \( (x, z) \in R \).
Consider the elements \( x = 1, y = 2, z = 3 \):
\[
|1^2 - 2^2| = |1 - 4| = 3 <8, \quad |2^2 - 3^2| = |4 - 9| = 5 <8.
\]
However:
\[
|1^2 - 3^2| = |1 - 9| = 8 \not < 8.
\]
Thus, the relation is not transitive.
Final Answer:
The relation \( R \) is reflexive and symmetric, but not transitive.