Lord Buddha did not immediately tell Kisa Gotami the reality of death in a direct manner. Instead, he chose to teach her through experience. He told her to go into the village and bring a handful of mustard seeds from any house where no one had ever died. He promised that if she could find such a house, he would be able to help her.
Kisa Gotami went from one house to another, but in every household, she heard stories of death — someone had lost a father, mother, brother, sister, or child. She could not find a single home untouched by death. Gradually, through this process, she came to understand the universal truth that death is inevitable and that no one escapes it. This realization brought her inner peace and acceptance. She returned to Buddha, placed the body of her child aside, and became a disciple.
Through this compassionate method, Buddha helped her transition from personal sorrow to spiritual enlightenment. His message was that death is a part of life and that understanding this truth helps overcome suffering.