We are given 9 friends, 4 boys and 5 girls, and the condition that exactly 3 girls must be invited.
Step 1: First, select the 3 girls from the 5 girls. The number of ways to do this is given by:
\[
\binom{5}{3} = \frac{5 \times 4 \times 3}{3 \times 2 \times 1} = 10
\]
Step 2: After selecting the 3 girls, we need to select 2 boys from the 4 boys. The number of ways to do this is given by:
\[
\binom{4}{2} = \frac{4 \times 3}{2 \times 1} = 6
\]
Step 3: Multiply the results of Step 1 and Step 2 to get the total number of ways to invite 3 girls and 2 boys:
\[
\binom{5}{3} \times \binom{4}{2} = 10 \times 6 = 60
\]
Thus, the answer is: 60.