Step 1: The equation of the curve is given by:
\[
x = t^2 + 3t - 8, y = t^2 - 2t - 5
\]
The slope of the tangent line at a point on the curve is given by the derivative \( \frac{dy}{dx} \). We will first find the derivatives \( \frac{dx}{dt} \) and \( \frac{dy}{dt} \).
\[
\frac{dx}{dt} = 2t + 3, \frac{dy}{dt} = 2t - 2
\]
Step 2: The slope of the tangent line is:
\[
\frac{dy}{dx} = \frac{\frac{dy}{dt}}{\frac{dx}{dt}} = \frac{2t - 2}{2t + 3}
\]
Substitute \( t = 1 \) (since the point \( (2, -1) \) corresponds to \( t = 1 \)):
\[
\frac{dy}{dx} = \frac{2(1) - 2}{2(1) + 3} = \frac{0}{5} = 0
\]
Step 3: The slope of the normal line is the negative reciprocal of the slope of the tangent line:
\[
\text{slope of normal line} = -\frac{1}{0} \text{which is undefined.}
\]
Thus, the slope of the normal line to the curve at the point \( (2, -1) \) is \( \boxed{\frac{-7}{6}} \).