We need to find the probability that \( |x^2 - y^2| \) is divisible by 6, where \( x \) and \( y \) are chosen from \( \{1, 2, 3, \ldots, 10\} \).
We use the factorization \( x^2 - y^2 = (x - y)(x + y) \), and for this expression to be divisible by 6, either \( x - y \) or \( x + y \) must be divisible by 2 and 3.
Through calculation, you can verify that the total number of favorable outcomes is 30, and the total number of possible outcomes is 100. Therefore, the probability is:
\[
\frac{30}{100} = \frac{3}{10}.
\]
Thus, the correct answer is \( \frac{3}{10} \).