If shortest distance between the lines
\[
\frac{x+1}{\alpha}=\frac{y-2}{-2}=\frac{z-4}{-2\alpha}
\quad \text{and} \quad
\frac{x}{\alpha}=\frac{y-1}{1}=\frac{z-1}{\alpha}
\]
is $\sqrt{2}$, then find the sum of all possible values of $\alpha$.
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For skew lines, always use vector cross product to compute shortest distance.