1. Statement (1): Lattice enthalpy measures ionic bond strength; higher values indicate more stable compounds, correct.
2. Statement (3): Bond length increases down the group due to larger atomic radii; Br>Cl, correct.
3. Statement (4): O$_2$ bond order 2 (paramagnetic), N$_2$ 3 (diamagnetic), different, correct.
4. Statement (2): In NF$_3$, pyramidal shape; bond dipoles (N$^+$ to F$^-$) net from N to F plane; lone pair at N (positive end) opposes, reducing dipole moment compared to NH$_3$, so directions opposite, incorrect.
5. Thus, (2) is not correct.