We are given that \( x R y \) if and only if \( x - y + \sqrt{5} \) is irrational.
Step 1: Checking Reflexivity
For \( R \) to be reflexive, \( x R x \) must hold for every \( x \).
\[
x - x + \sqrt{5} = \sqrt{5}
\]
Since \( \sqrt{5} \) is irrational, \( (x, x) \in R \).
Thus, \( R \) is reflexive.
Step 2: Checking Symmetry
For symmetry, if \( x R y \), then we must check if \( y R x \) holds.
\[
x - y + \sqrt{5} \text{ is irrational}
\]
\[
y - x + \sqrt{5} = -(x - y) + \sqrt{5}
\]
Since the sum of an irrational number and a rational number may not always be irrational, \( R \) is not symmetric.
Step 3: Checking Transitivity
For transitivity, if \( x R y \) and \( y R z \), then \( x R z \) should hold.
\[
x - y + \sqrt{5} \text{ is irrational}
\]
\[
y - z + \sqrt{5} \text{ is irrational}
\]
Adding both equations:
\[
(x - y + \sqrt{5}) + (y - z + \sqrt{5}) = x - z + 2\sqrt{5}
\]
Since \( 2\sqrt{5} \) is irrational, \( x - z + 2\sqrt{5} \) may or may not be irrational.
Thus, \( R \) is not transitive.
Final Answer:
\( R \) is reflexive but neither symmetric nor transitive.
Thus, the correct option is \(\boxed{\text{(a) Reflexive}}\).