Step 1: Check Reflexive Property.
A relation is reflexive if
\[
(a,a)\in R
\]
for every \(a\in A\).
Here
\[
A=\{1,2,3\}
\]
For reflexive relation we must have
\[
(1,1),(2,2),(3,3)
\]
But given relation contains only
\[
(2,2)
\]
Thus the relation is not reflexive.
Step 2: Check Symmetric Property.
A relation is symmetric if
\[
(a,b)\in R \Rightarrow (b,a)\in R
\]
Now observe the pairs:
\[
(1,2)\in R
\]
and
\[
(2,1)\in R
\]
Thus symmetry condition is satisfied.
Step 3: Check Transitive Property.
A relation is transitive if
\[
(a,b)\in R \text{ and } (b,c)\in R
\]
implies
\[
(a,c)\in R
\]
Now
\[
(1,2)\in R
\]
\[
(2,1)\in R
\]
Then transitivity requires
\[
(1,1)\in R
\]
But
\[
(1,1)\notin R
\]
Thus relation is not transitive.
Step 4: Conclusion.
The relation satisfies symmetry but does not satisfy reflexive or transitive properties.
Therefore the relation is symmetric only.
Final Answer: $\boxed{\text{Symmetric only}}$